Friday, May 23, 2008

The Last Word

Dear Pragmatist,

Sometimes I can’t help it – I end up chiming in at the end of the discussion. It took me a while to notice to notice this. Do I have a problem?

If your input is consistently negative, this is a problem.

This habit often starts with little things that then becomes a permanent pattern.

My advice - let some of the small things roll off your back, even if they drive you crazy. Learn to bite your tongue.

You don’t always have to have the last word. It is a negative habit that causes others to question your priorities and ego.

Now, if your input is alternatively thoughtful, conciliatory, inspired, or challenging, then it is OK.

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